Would you rather quit or be fired?
If I told you that you were being replaced at your current job, what would you say? And I’m not talking about the immediate shock and anger about the pending loss of your job. Once you’ve had a moment to think rationally, you’ll probably be wondering, “should I ride this out, or should I make a move?” What’s the right decision here?
I think the answer should be based on your long term and short term goals. There are many negatives that come attached to being fired – you may lose your reference, you may be affected psychologically. Every application you’ll ever fill out in the future, the answer to “have you ever been fired?” will now be yes. Quitting before this happens,
however, has its benefits and negatives as well. For one, you can forget about any severance package you may otherwise have received. In most cases you won’t get unemployment benefits (which in some states are so small, it hardly matters). But you’ll save face, you’ll leave with your chin up, and most likely retain more connections and references from this employment.
The choice between waiting to be fired and quitting is not easy, but once you’ve realized that either one is inevitable, you cannot afford not to take action. Build a plan, apply for other jobs, research business ideas – anything that will put you back on the right path. If you’re ready to give up on the career path that you’ve been following with your current job, then letting the firing happen may not be the worst idea. You’ll switch industries, jump into new job assignments, responsibilities. If you’re planning on moving on to a field that has no connection to your previous employment, it’s more than likely that your new employers won’t even bother contacting the company that fired you. But if you’re planning to continue your career in a similar setting (even if it’s a different industry – think about how different your job responsibilities will be), then you may be better off jumping the gun. Start interviewing as soon as possible. Get out there and push yourself, instead of sulking. Believe it or not, speaking with your boss about your plan will play to your benefit in this situation. The company will be much more inclined to keep you on just a while longer, until you’re ready to move on. Your quitting instead of being fired is a huge benefit to the company – they don’t have to pay your unemployment (their state unemployment insurance is likely to rise as a result of your termination), and more importantly no negative effect on employee morale.
When the time comes, the decision is hard. If you’re prepare yourself, you can think rationally and make a decision that’s right for you.











November 13, 2009 - 8:27 am
Great post. I will read your posts frequently. Added you to the RSS reader.
November 13, 2009 - 8:31 am
I don’t think that once they’ve decided they want you gone you have that much time to think and plan. If the big man decided you’re gone then you’re gone
November 13, 2009 - 9:58 am
Thanks, Randy! I’m glad you enjoy the blog.
Jim – the key to my post is that you are clued in that a firing is imminent with at least a few weeks to spare. Obviously finding out that you’re about to be fired the week of is not much help…
November 13, 2009 - 2:11 pm
I think being fired has a lot more negative effects than people realize. I’d probably walk out first
November 13, 2009 - 2:14 pm
In all fairness, I think the setting has a lot to do with it. If it’s nothing more than a job and a reference you’ll never need, sure I’d wait to get unemployment benefits, but if I’m sticking around the industry, I think I’d rather quit and save face. But as you may have guessed by the picture in the post, I’d of course tell them all to kiss me between the cheeks!